ooc; I’m so behind on my replies. RL got overwhelming for a few days, so I hope you guys haven’t given up on me!! I’m looking forward to get back to my lovely Jaspers and everyone in the Salvatore verse!<3

This goes for any fandom: Don’t let the “ignorant” or overbearing fans ruin an entire group of them for you.

5 months ago
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xstefansalvatorex:

Please do me and the rest of our fandom a favor and get the fuck out..

I’m sure because most of you are so bogged down with re-watching and re-blogging every single moment of your little delena lives, you’ve never broken up with someone before so as someone that HAS, I’ll do my best to explain this to you.

When you spend as much time devoting yourself to one person, loving them with every thing you have and are willing to go out of your way to do anything to keep them safe - all while your own BROTHER (or sister) tries to worm their way in to your relationship by kissing your significant other or trying to do anything they can to be seen the way you are in their eyes, only to have that lead to you needing to break up with that person and feel hurt and pain because you’re losing them to YOUR OWN FUCKING SIBLING..you’re going to feel a bit of bitterness, hell maybe even a little anger.

That’s what love does to people. So for anyone to criticize and complain because Stefan blew off Damon and showed anger toward him only makes you one of the most ignorant people in the world when it comes to the topic of love and family. For anyone that says Stefan is a BAD brother, and doesn’t look at Damon’s own selfish, heartless actions such as well fuck I don’t know..KISSING HIS BROTHERS GIRLFRIEND 3 TIMES and consider him just as horrible of a sibling I decree that you are irreversibly fucked in the head. 

To sum it all up, what Stefan did is what any normal human being would do after suffering a loss as great as what they feel to be true love. If you can find me someone who loses someone they consider to be their only real love and takes it with a smile on their face like it’s the best day in the world, I’ll gladly shut my mouth. But until then - please do yourselves a favor and go watch a movie or 2 like the notebook, or hell get a boyfriend or girlfirend and let them dumb you..then you’ll understand.

You’re making Damon sound like a terrible person in this post which makes you sound just as ignorant, to be honest. This wasn’t a very convincing post it was just a little on the rude side. I’m sure you’re not the only person who’s ever experienced breaking up with someone and that Delena shippers (such as myself) have also had the experience so that argument wasn’t very sound.

This isn’t me disagreeing with you about how Stefan is treating Damon. I definitely think Stefan has the right to be angry/upset with Damon, mainly because he’s hurt and because Damon is the main reason for their breakup (even if he didn’t break them up on purpose). While Damon has definitely had his faults, more so than Stefan, Stefan has had his own as well. Neither of them is the “bad” brother, they both just have their own downfalls.

5 months ago
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ask-bellacullen:

What movie are you watching? I’ve only seen a couple with him in it and I’m guessing they weren’t the one you’re watching considering nothings ever made me want to hate him! Haha. It’s impossible, though! He’s perfection. 

That’s what I always thought too, but this one man… He plays the part very believably. He’s physically abusive in a couple of the worst ways. He’s also very manipulative toward someone who can easily be taken advantage of but definitely shouldn’t be. It’s called Girlfriend. I found it on Netflix.